<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Lighting the Flame ]]></title><description><![CDATA[Lighting the Flame ]]></description><link>https://www.rabbimoshelevi.com/blog</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Thu, 16 Apr 2026 03:41:25 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://www.rabbimoshelevi.com/blog-feed.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[Your Child Doesn’t Need Fixing — He Needs to Be Seen]]></title><description><![CDATA[A child refuses to listen. He argues. He shuts down. He pushes back against everything you ask. From the outside, it looks like a problem that needs fixing. So parents naturally try to correct it. They explain. They warn. They give consequences. They try to teach the child the “right way” to behave. But something painful begins to happen. The more the parent tries to fix the child, the more the child feels that something is wrong with him. Not just with his behavior — but with who he is . And...]]></description><link>https://www.rabbimoshelevi.com/post/your-child-doesn-t-need-fixing-he-needs-to-be-seen</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69a8caedf1929985ec9567f8</guid><pubDate>Thu, 05 Mar 2026 00:14:52 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/bc1ac5_d38f11d4b7804f0bb5dab2e20ab88a5f~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_768,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Moshe Levi</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Your Child Is Not Lazy — He Is Overwhelmed]]></title><description><![CDATA[You ask him to start his homework. He says, “Later.” You remind him again. He disappears. You find him staring at nothing, doing anything except what he needs to do. It looks like laziness. It feels like he doesn’t care. Like he has no motivation. Like he’s choosing the easy way out. So we push harder. We add consequences. We take away privileges. We lecture. And still — nothing changes. Not because he is lazy. But because he is overwhelmed. What laziness often hides Most children want to...]]></description><link>https://www.rabbimoshelevi.com/post/your-child-is-not-lazy-he-is-overwhelmed</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69a84ce51fb1895eb270a485</guid><pubDate>Wed, 04 Mar 2026 15:17:00 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/bc1ac5_1ada9402ea58408aa3b28dbc551cedd2~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_768,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Moshe Levi</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Anger Is Not a Problem — It’s a Signal]]></title><description><![CDATA[You’re standing in the kitchen.Your child explodes — yelling, slamming a door, refusing to listen. In that moment, it doesn’t feel like a signal.It  feels like disrespect.Like  loss of control.Like  something that must be stopped — immediately. So we react.We correct.We punish.We raise our voice. And the anger grows. Not because the child is defiant.But because the message was never heard. Anger is a language Children don’t always have the words for what they feel.They don’t say: “I’m...]]></description><link>https://www.rabbimoshelevi.com/post/anger-is-not-a-problem-it-s-a-signal</link><guid isPermaLink="false">69a84af60df7a7bf5034c754</guid><pubDate>Wed, 04 Mar 2026 15:08:43 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/bc1ac5_5d0ccee9556e436f9b67376a8eef6232~mv2.png/v1/fit/w_1000,h_768,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>Moshe Levi</dc:creator></item></channel></rss>